Fifty Shades Of Grey. Is it wrong that this is what I want? It doesn’t matter how lady like you behave in the street, how well mannered you are meeting the parents, this is about what goes down under the sheets. And this is what I want. Luckily for me, I have a man willing to oblige… More about that later.
I’ve been observing on the internet several reviews that say the book just makes people feel ill. Clearly BDSM isn’t their cup of tea and they aren’t interested in Mr.Tie-Me-Up-Tie-Me-Down. However, it’s starting to grate on my nerves now. IF WHIPPING MAKES YOU FEEL ILL, DON’T READ THE BOOK. Admittedly, the prose leaves a lot to be desired in places, James’ sentence structure is disjointed throughout, and I’m left boggling when she uses English when the book is supposed to be in Seattle, but the concept and the Dom/Sub relationship that Anastasia and Christian is a huge turn-on. He wants to be in control of everything, he makes demands and she must obey. There is nothing sexier than being totally out of control and knowing that someone entirely possesses you, physically and sexually.
I completely understand that this isn’t a lifestyle choice for everyone and people are going to be uncomfortable with the idea, but it’s well documented that ‘Fifty Shades’ is about this kind of relationship. Turns your stomach? Don’t read the goddamn book.
For me though, this is something that I actually want . I want a “Red Room of
Pain Pleasure”. I want a bend over bench. I want to be told yes and no. I want to be dominated is what it boils down to. This may make my tastes a bit raunchier than your average girl, some of you may be slightly freaked out, but at the end of the day, whether you like gimp masks or straight forward vanilla sex, it’s all about what pleases you. No-one has the right to judge you on that.
Anyway, I’m off on the pursuit of happiness… See you on the other side.. 1d3a.